It’s really hard to write this post, because I don’t feel like I know the right thing to say – but it would feel wrong not to write it, because I feel that in all the tragedy, there is still a celebration here – of love. of hope. of faith in God and His will for all of us.

I had the honor of photographing Melanie’s maternity portraits a few weeks ago, and of witnessing and capturing the immense love Melanie and her husband, David, have for each other and for their unborn son, whom they had already named Gabriel.

Melanie and David have known each other since they were 7 years old, when they attended Manning Primary School in Manning, SC. It was Melanie’s idea to have her maternity session at that location. We were given permission and free reign of the entire school and its grounds, and I thought it was so special and sweet for them to choose this as the location for their portrait session. I was capturing the beginning of their new family and an exciting new chapter of their lives right where the first chapter of their relationship together began.

It was an amazing photo session. Melanie was absolutely gorgeous and beaming! David is one of the proudest daddies I’ve ever seen, and he is so amazingly attentive to Melanie. I really hope that when I am pregnant, that my husband is as sweet as David is to Melanie. We walked through the school and out on the school grounds. The light was perfect, and so was the weather. We had a fantastic time, and after big bear hugs and lots of smiles, I drove back to Columbia with my heart full for this couple, and so excited to edit the photos and start planning for the newborn session, which was only about 4 weeks away!

About a week later, around 6 am on a Sunday morning, I received a text message from David. Melanie had gone into early labor, and Gabriel didn’t make it. I was devastated. I couldn’t believe it. It felt like I went through all the stages of grief in a split second. I couldn’t believe that I wouldn’t get to meet handsome little Gabriel, take his photos, and watch him grow up. My heart still hurts for Melanie and David, and will for a long time. I can’t imagine what they have been going through. I only know in my heart that Gabriel was loved every second of his life, since the moment he was conceived. I know that there is meaning and reason behind every event, even though it is completely unexplainable or understandable at times.

The memorial service was last Friday, and one of these photos was displayed at the memorial.

What is the most amazing about all of this is the strength, faith and peace coming from David and Melanie. I am so incredibly inspired by their love for God and belief in his plan for everyone. They have such an amazing outlook on life through all of this, and every time I see a text message, Facebook post or email from them, it is positive and hopeful. I can only imagine how blinding a grief like this is for them, yet they see beauty in life, love and God through it all.

I asked David for permission to post these photographs, wanting to make sure it wouldn’t cause any more grief in this journey, and he was so welcoming and happy about the idea. I want these photos to remain as a tribute to little Gabriel – an amazing child that was too good for this world.

David and Melanie – I am so inspired by the two of you. I know that Gabriel is giggling and playing in Heaven, waiting for you when the day comes. I know that once and if you feel like you’re ready to have another little one,  I know he/she will have an amazing spirit and the most loving parents. Thank you so much for allowing me to be a part of your journey as parents, and I am here for you if you need anything.

Love,

Stephanie

 

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